Kyla Piscopink is recognizable from stages in Key West to New York City. Her grace extends beyond performance, to the perpetual dance of juggling being a mother, wife, and professional artist. Kyla also gives back to the community in beautiful ways, like her Autism Movement Therapy classes and her fundamental ideology that dance should be accessible to all. To what might we credit her enviable zen-like attitude? “Trust the flow and follow your heart, but also manage your expectations,” she says.
In what situation have you felt like a “one woman show?” Many. But the first time I travelled solo with my baby to choreograph and set a show in New York City stands out. At the time, he was 9 months old, nursing nonstop and not sleeping much. Two of my girlfriends took care of him during the one-hour rehearsals and for the show. The rest of the time, it was the two of us: at rehearsals and meetings. It really showed me how strong—and lucky—I am to be able to live this life as a working artist and mother.
Who are your role models for leadership? I’m inspired by people who use their gifts and talents to make this world a better place. I’m inspired by kindness, love and going the distance.
What do you think is the secret to success and sanity? Over the years, I’ve found that “balance” is a complete myth. Throw out that idea and replace it with the idea of integration. I try to allow work and life to coexist. Flipping my perspective on these concepts really allowed me to stay sane and flourish.
While you are an independent woman, we know it takes a village. Who is in your village? My husband is my rock. My sweet family and friends, along with DKW’s board of directors, dancers and donors — they all make it possible for me to do what I do.
What advice would you give to your younger self just starting your journey? Everyone’s path is unique — don’t be afraid to go your own way. The beauty is in the journey, so try to enjoy the ups and downs, and know that you’re smart, capable and strong enough to always land on your own two feet.
